emotional health

Does Unemployment Make You Lazy?

Seems like a stupid question but worth pondering. It's hard to imagine a diligent person made lazy by a period of unemployment, but happy people are made depressed by it, right?

Does having the luxury of taking a nap make you lazy? In my case, I would say no. Much as I love naps, I hardly ever take them, and I usually only take them when I have a ton of work to do and stay up late doing it.

Unemployed and Bored

Wow, have I ever been remiss!

This blog has been around for over a year now. That's like 30 in blog years. Most bloggers give up after a few months. It's understandable. You work your butt off for every pair of eyeballs in this business.

Unemployed and Angry

Anger can motivate you if you direct it that way.

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On this issue, I am an expert. If you've surfed around my blog at all, you've probably noticed a pattern of optimism punctuated by periods of searing rage, or maybe it's the other way around. All I know is, unemployment pisses me off sometimes.

Toward the end of this post, I'm going to tell you how I deal with it and even use it to my advantage, but first I want to address the issue of anger itself.

Survive Stress when Unemployed

Unemployment can be incredibly stressful, even more stressful than having a job. If you ever needed proof that life is simply not fair, there you have it.

From what I can tell, two related factors stress the unemployed and their families:

How to keep it together...

...when unemployment freaks you out

[Disclaimer: The following should not be construed as professional advice. If you suffer from panic attacks or severe anxiety, please seek professional help. If you are having thoughts of suicide, don't read this post! Go here or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) IMMEDIATELY.]

I don't want to seem like some kind of know-it-all. The stress and tragedy (so much of it internal) of being unemployed ties me in knots every single day. That being said, I am an old pro at this joblessness thing, having been in various states of it for the past 2.5 years and also having endured it during the recession of the early 1990s, when I was a strapping young buck fresh out of college.

Unemployed and Depressed? It's Normal.

If you weren't depressed, you'd be crazy. Unemployment is depressing.

[DISCLAIMER: The following should not be construed as professional advice. If you are chronically depressed, get help. If you are experiencing thoughts of suicide, go here or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) IMMEDIATELY Life is a beautiful gift though it might feel like a turd sandwich going down your throat right now.]

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