A Twist of Fate

A twist of fate. An Irony if you will. Yes one more interview -- this one would be number 6 in a year's time. Now with that statement it should tell you the excitement of getting dressed from sweats to real clothes, make-up, hair done and dusting off those shoes you thought you would never wear again..

Off and running, where I actually enjoyed the wee bit of traffic for I felt human again, I felt the cool morning air, the morning news on the radio, driving next to others streaming by going to where they belong, where they fit in.

Arriving at my appointment with time to spare, I reviewed my resume over and over again, thought of all the questions I was asked previously. I knew this may not be a job I would have chosen but it may be a job that may choose me.

With a smile and self-confidence I made my way to the front desk and announced myself as having an appointment.

This friendly young man shook my hand and thanked me for being on time -- good start, so I thought! After small talk such as kids, animals and such, the real reason for this interview emerged. What have I done in my past work life, what I can bring to this new job. Do I think I can fulfill the necessary tasks.

Forty-five minutes ending with, "We will call you if you fit our needs for this opening."

I left with my hopes high a feeling of open heart, open mind.

After getting home I received a called from my sister-in-law saying she was let go from her job and is now starting all over once again. I could hear the fear in her voice the pain in her heart. I listened and try to console her as best I could, squeezing in the news I went to this interview at this company. She became very quiet, then with a low-toned voice she told me, this was the company she was just laid off from! They were looking to replace her, unknown to her. The irony -- I was trying to get the job she had just lost! My heart fell to the floor. I was so upset. I felt so very bad. How could this happen, as big as the city of Chicago is, how in the world did I find my way to the place and the job she was at, she had. I knew as much as I needed to work and wanted to work I could and would never put a job in front of family. This job would never be put on my next resume.

A TWIST OF FATE.

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Sorry

What a quirky thing to have happen. But realize you did not go after her job, nor did you plan to take her job. Plus realize you are only hearing one side of the story (not that I am saying she is fibbing). I would let this one play out if I were you. Let the company interview and follow up before you make any choices that you can not reverse.

Fish

Sorry

Thank you fish, I do understand what you are saying but a look at the company web site, I see the job posting which was placed on the day before she was laid off, Your right I do not know the whole story,nor do I wish to at this time I know what my choice will be before it is given to me.
There is no price on family.

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Now wait a minute

If you get this job, take it. You're not betraying your sister-in-law by doing so. It's not your fault that they let her go. Are you even sure it's the same position?

Loyalty is a wonderful trait, and I place it near the very top of my personal ethos. But first things first -- ya' gotta eat. Ya' gotta pay da' bills, y'know?

Take the job if you get it.

When life hands you sh*t, make fertilizer.

Now wait !!

Thank you both Chuck and fish , I do understand that a job is a job that we all must face hard decisions in our every day world of life. This was a walk I had to walk along, it was a place I had to look at the whole picture not just the now issue. The decision I made was for me,I know it was the correct one, An yes I have to eat but I could never enjoy the taste of food knowing I was taking it from someone I loved and respected.

I could never imagine myself looking behind myself seeing someone I loved waiting there in line hoping for me to fail so they could step in ..I do not know the reason , nor do I ask I just know someone I care for very deeply has joined 500,000 others the hunt.. Thank you again for all your input it.

Another perspective

I understand your concern and you moral decison, but here's what happend to me. A good friend got a job I had also applied for, we were both employed by the same co that laid me off but she was still employed there, and she took the new job. I am disappointed because I was more qualified, but I can't be angry with her - I should expect her to turn down a good job because I'M unemployed? That's not friendship. She had nothing to do with my lay off, just like you had nothing to do with that one.

One more reject

Well after waiting to see about this job interview, I received an E-mail saying they have other candidates that better fit this opening,, But again Thanked me for my time.

sheesh

That's too bad, sorry you got bad news on this one. I just got a call on the interview I had last week at the chiro office. They've decided to give the girl who's there a second chance at learning the job. Can they call me in a couple of weeks, she asked. Sure, why not. Sigh.

Sheesh 2

I am so sorry. I know it was a hard rollercoster for you. I hope that you find the perfect/close fit of a job soon.

Fish

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