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Depressed and Angry About the Extension
The failure of the unemployment extension has affected me strongly, even though I don't collect. I've been surfing around the web reading discussions on the subject, and it's just... devastating.
One guy told of losing his young wife to cancer two years ago and trying to raise his two young children himself. He's been out of work for 18 months and can't find anything. Now his benefits are running out and he and his boys will be in the streets by the end of the month. They have no food.
Another woman in her 50s has blown through her 401(k) in the past two years and now faces eviction from a house that she has been paying faithfully on for 15 years.
All of these people have applied for hundreds of jobs. It's not like people aren't looking for jobs -- there simply are no jobs, not for the unemployed, anyway.
Stories like this are being repeated millions of times. 200,000 people are going to fall off the rolls every week. Millions of people face homelessness and hunger. I never thought I would see this in America. My God, what have we become?
Meanwhile, the very rich are richer than ever. Do they think this won't affect them? I've got news for the rich guys: It's not that far from the Bronx to Larchmont, Rye, Greenwich or wherever else you sequester yourselves. This will affect you shortly after people start getting hungry.
Is there no sense of patriotism among Republicans and the very rich? If I were making a huge income or sitting on a massive pile of wealth, I would advocate for taxing my class a few extra percentage points. You live in a society, in a nation. Have you no stake in that society's health? These people wave the flag and say they love America, but then they stab America in the back every chance they get just to get richer than they already are. They send our jobs overseas, take our tax money to cover their gambling losses (yeah, we haven't forgotten the bailouts), send us overseas to kill and die, and now they leave millions of people to freeze and starve. It's disgusting.
People will say, "Don't blame the rich." Well, I do blame the rich. They're the ones with the power. They're the ones who screwed up our financial system (and profited from it). They're the ones who bought the politicians and tilted every playing field to their own advantage. This is their fault. Not to say that there aren't good rich people, but those good rich people have not been active or patriotic enough to counteract what their evil neighbors have done.
What have they done? They have driven millions of people to poverty and desperation. May they reap as they have sown.
The Republicans are such hypocrites. They say they're worried about the deficit, but the Bush tax cuts cost over a trillion dollars in revenue. The wars have cost over a trillion dollars. The TARP and other bailouts cost over a trillion dollars. This $33 billion for the unemployment extension was a drop in the bucket compared to the havoc they've wreaked on the budget. It seems like they hate America because they've done more than anybody else to bring us to this point.
It's time for the poor and middle class to start fighting back in the class war. We no longer have anything to lose.
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Depressed, disgusted and mad as hell
Chuck, there is no middle class anymore. There's the wealthy who rob us blind while they smile and promise it's our best interest they have at heart.
And there's the poor. Those of us being robbed and lied to. Thrown out in the streets with our kids, hungry and scared.
Desperate and angry.
I'm not living on the streets with my kids yet. I've got just enough money to make my rent this month. But that's all I've got.
My heart goes out to everyone in this situation. It's tough. Your right, it won't take long for the snotty back stabbing people who caused this to start feeling the effects. You turn your back and leave MILLIONS of people destitute, hungry, and homeless: won't take long for anger fear and basic survival instincts to start kicking in. When that happens there will be a whole new revolution in this country.
I'm praying for all of us, the unemployed and their families.
I would also like to say thank you Chuck, for keeping us up to date and in touch with each other. It does help to know you're not alone in this, and to vent and share ideas and points of view.
I am new to this forum. I
I am new to this forum. I decided, maybe if I put my words on paper and someone reads it, then it will help. It will not solve my problem, but I cannot hold it in any longer. I have been unemployed for 8 months. My boyfriend and I live together and we are on the verge of breaking up again, but for good this time. My boyfriend is wonderful and he treats me like a queen, but there is no money and we are scared. He is paying the bills in our household, plus a huge child support payment because he has 3 children. We are picking fights and this has slowly taken a toll on our relationship. It is really serious. We have been trying to hang on each month praying I will find a job, but nothing as of yet. I am so scared because we keep putting the breakup off, but today it is inevitable. I find myself tiptoeing around him to avoid the topic. He doesn't want to breakup, but he's at his wits end. We are having trouble buying food and putting gas in the car. His solution is to go back to the home where his kids live and rent out a room from their mom, his ex. It breaks my heart, because I feel he is my soulmate. We had so many dreams and goals we are working on together. We are doing our Master's together to become teachers. For me, my only option is going to my Mom's. I am 42 yrs old. I am so sad and ashamed. I do not mean to sound so depressing, but not working can really take a toll.
Thank You!
Hi Demi
Hello and welcome. I understand completely what you are going through and I wish you all the best. My husband and I are in the same boat. He already suffered from major depression, since all this shit started it has only gotten worse. He lost his job in Sept. of 08, I lost mine in Dec. 08.(Talk about a double whammy!) He went for a while taking less medicine than he is prescribed b/c we couldn't afford the medicine. We got in touch with Wyeth and he's getting free meds.right now but his depression has gotten worse. He had a sort of break down and we almost split up. I love him so much, but the stress of his condition,the lack of money and job offers was and still is a serious weight on my shoulders. I went for a little while to community mental health center just to have someone to talk to and try to get through it. There, I was diagnosed as having "moderate recurring depression". We had to move then so I've not continued with that service, though maybe I should. Sometimes it just helps to talk. I found a temp P/T job that lasted for 2 months. He's had 2 temp jobs that lasted about 3 months altogether. Both of us are still looking. I/we started a garden, I figured that it could keep me busy and let me feel somewhat productive and beneficial to my family. I guess it's helped a little, keeps me occupied sometimes at least. I think it's fair to say we seem to just co-habitate now. Not much of a marriage most times. We are still hanging on but the ice seems to be getting thinner. I understand what you're going through. And yes sometimes just getting it off your chest helps. Even if it's not face to face. I think we are all having to switch over to survival mode, at that point it helps to know you're not alone and someone, anyone understands what you are dealing with.
Hope all goes well with you. I do a LOT of praying lately, and I will keep you in my prayers.
Take care and best wishes.
Hi
I can relate to a lot of what you're going thru, too. I'm in a distance relationship, and it's getting harder to keep it going. He's got a good job, and I know he's sympathetic and supportive - always has been - but I feel bad and embarassed, like the corporate downsizing was all my fault. And I know it can't be easy for him to hear all this and not be able to fix it.
Becky30016 is right: It is about surviving, at least for the time being. And there's no shame in doing what it takes to get through bad times.
You'll be in my thoughts. Take care.
Hello Celiamck! You
Hello Celiamck! You mentioned, "there is no shame in doing what it takes to get through bad times." Does this include my boyfriend going back to the home where his kids are and his ex-wife? She offered him a room to rent. Am I being selfish? This situation we are in has really put a strain on our relationship because this is not how things were suppose to be (of course not). He is probably regretting getting a divorce. He is recently divorced (3 months ago), but they had been separated for a year. He was in a marriage for 17 years to a woman he was not in love with, but wanted to do the right thing for his children. He had 3 kids under 18 and 1 who is 18. I commend him for that. He is definitely a good father, who was willing to sacrifice his happiness. I came into the picture and it was a love story, but because of my unemployment, he is really contemplating taking his ex on her offer, but of course there are strings attached. We love each other, but he says he doesn't know what else to do. He has kids to think about. I have one, but she is 20.
Thanks,
Demi
Hello, back atcha, Demi
I can't answer for your boyfriend, or for you, as to the right thing for you folks specifically to do. I meant that sometimes life forces us to make tough decisions, and we all have to take care of our selves - and our children, if we've got them. His decisions are for him to make, and are his responsibility. You have to make yours based on what's the best choice for you. Sometimes, they're not gonna be the same.
I understand how the situation is putting a strain on your relationship. Relationships are tough under the best circumstances. I'd be upset, too, if my S.O. decided to move back in with his ex. But I'd like to be able to think that I'd want to see him safe....not sure I'm that big of a person, tho, honestly.
Figure out what the most important priorities are for you right now and work on them. ... sorry, I suppose you were hoping for some other solution. I wish my magic crystal ball was working. Please take good care of yourself.
Good Morning!
Thank you Celiamck for your response. Of course, you were dead on it. It is just hard to hear. If something doesn't give then we will have to do something, and it is most likely something we are not going to like, but hey like its been told to me it is about survival. Anyhow, this forum is allowing me to simply say what's on my mind. Again, thanks for everyone's comments and we ALL shall keep pressing forward and be optimistic.
Have a marvelous day!!!!!!!!!!
you, too
...have a marvelous day! And you're welcome.
Hello to everyone! Happy 4th
Hello to everyone! Happy 4th of July!!! To the lady who responded to my comment yesterday, thank you very much. If you would like to email me please feel free. I can be reached at: demetrarosuagwu@yahoo.com. It is good just to be able to talk to someone. I will definitely keep you and yours in my prayers. These are definitely "trying" times for many people. And yes, it is easy to slip into a depressed state of mind. We have to dig deep for inner strength. Please hold onto the faith. I look forward to hearing from you and others for support.
Ms. Demi
You have a great spirit
It shines through in your comments. I agree with you completely that having faith and bonding with others are key in these times. Thanks for chiming in.
When life hands you sh*t, make fertilizer.